Private
1. Repentance (remorse) of his brethren - Gen 42:24
2. Refraining from his brethren - Gen 43:30

Before his brethren
3. Revelation of himself - Gen 45:2
4. Reconciliation with his brethren - Gen 45:14-15
5. Reassurance to his brethren - Gen 50:17

Before his father
6. Reunion with his father - Gen 46:29
7. Respect (remembrance) for his father - Gen 50:1